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For those that don’t know (and that’s probably many considering the whopping two paragraphs on Wikipedia), Pre-Cana is a number of courses that allow a couple to get married in the Catholic church. Sometimes the classes can stretch over three weekends, but Tara and I knocked it out in one big gulp last Saturday. It was…all right. A little awkward at times (see above), and my biggest gripe with the whole deal was that the instructors already assumed you and your future spouse fought and had many deep, problematic issues to work out from the get-go. That’s not the case with Tara and I. I’m peanut butter, she’s chocolate; we complement each other greatly, and nothing can stop us. But then when you tell them this, it’s still something negative because it’s not good to not fight ever…or some silliness like that. To each his own, I guess.

But yeah, we survived eight hours of Pre-Cana and even got to have mass in the chapel we’re getting married in. It was nice. My head didn’t explode there.

I believe in you even through the tears and the laughter
I believe in you even though we be apart
I believe in you even on the morning after

- “I Believe In You” by Bob Dylan

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j_cheney
Feb. 19th, 2010 01:53 pm (UTC)
My husband and I don't fight either. Just the way we're wired--we don't like fighting.
tk42one
Feb. 19th, 2010 02:14 pm (UTC)
We fight, but nothing like a soap opera epic duel or anything. Just normal arguments and disagreements.

And I consider myself lucky. Somehow I managed to skate through Pre-Cana despite being non-Catholic. Still wondering if somebody up there was looking out for me.
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